The Living your AFterlife Membership
A psychology-based, spiritually informed way to grieve figurative losses and rebuild a life that's a reflection of your values, dreams, and desires.
Continuing to play the “what-if” game with what your life could have looked like is keeping you stuck in limbo. The longer you keep reminiscing, the longer you're kept from exploring options that might fulfill you even more than the plan for your old life.
Not all deaths are literal, but the world doesn’t give a damn about the figurative deaths you’ve experienced.
And no one seems to recognize just how many deaths you’ve been through.
Just like they don’t realize all the different routes you’ve taken into your personal underworld, like:
Receiving a new chronic illness diagnosis
After years of suffering and not being listened to.
burning out from your dream job
And wondering if you’ve wasted years of your life just to throw it all away.
realizing the religion you were raised in was super culty
Even though you family will swear it wasn’t. You now know you spent years living under high-control tactics.
Knowing you’re queer, but hiding it from yourself and everyone around you
Because you were taught that your queerness was something to be ashamed of.
Unmasking your neurodivergence
And fearing that no one will ever accept you unless you go back to conforming to neuronormativity.
And these deaths are responsible for radically altering how you view (and relate to) yourself and the other beings around you, which explains why:
You feel unworthy of grieving because you’ve been told these deaths don’t count as real losses.
Dreaming of a new future feels impossible because you’re terrified of having yet another dream ripped away.
The thought of trusting anyone feels terrifying because they might be even more judgmental than the voice inside your head
You’ve been denying how hard these losses have been on you and forcing yourself to go into "fix-it" mode. Grieving is the first step to actually troubleshooting what your next steps in life are.
You could tell yourself that your life is completely over, or you could start Living Your Afterlife.
All that’s actually ended is life as you once knew it. Now you have a chance to consciously choose what your life looks like after it’s all come crashing down.
Instead of getting caught in the doom spiral, you can:
Gently tend to your grief and allow it to inform you about what it needs
Reconnect to your values and map out actions you can take to live them out on a daily basis
Gather evidence that you’re an active participant in your own life, instead of viewing life as something that happens to you
Welcome to Living Your Afterlife!
A membership for people who are ready to Learn how to grieve figurative losses and rebuild a life that's a reflection of their values, dreams, and desires.
If you wanna live out your own afterlife, you’re gonna have to go G.H.O.S.T.
G - Gather the ashes
We’ll catalogue what burned down and honor every loss, no matter how ambiguous they might seem to other people.
H - Halt the performance
Instead of gritting your teeth through toxic positivity and forced optimism, you’ll finally feel permission to be honest about your grief.
O - Observe the in-between
Rather than forcing yourself to get to the next stage, you’ll notice what your personal underworld is teaching you about yourself, your needs, and your wants.
s - Shed Outdated rules
Because the old rules never actually fit your life, and they definitely don’t account for the nuance of your afterlife.
T - Tend to your Dreams
Just like a gardener tends to their plants to support their growth, you’re now nurturing your dreams and watching them become your reality.
What Each Month Looks Like Inside The Membership
Each month, we’ll do a deep dive into one or two aspects of the G.H.O.S.T. Framework.
Week 1
Tarot Spreads & Journal Prompts Drop
Designed to help you uncover the stories your subconscious has been holding onto so that you can identify opportunities to create new stories.
Week 4
Private Podcast Episode Airs
You’ll receive a mix of meditations, energy work sessions, and the occasional personal anecdote that’ll help you integrate your losses (so you don’t feel haunted by them) and step boldly into your new identity.
Week 2
Grief Ritual
These intentionally low-stakes, practices allow you to go from avoiding and suppressing your grief, to gently and authentically interacting with it.
Week 3
Monthly 75-Minute Live Workshop
Move beyond reading about transformation and change to actually experiencing it in your own life. These workshops provide a space for you to practice grieving, connecting to your values, and building out new dreams for yourself in real time.
All for $47 per month (or $470/year if you’d like 2 free months).
No time commitment. Cancel anytime. Rejoin whenever you want.
Doors open September 20th, 2026.
The Anti-Overwhelm Pledge
You can’t "fall behind" in this membership. There are no mandatory modules and no gold stars for attendance. If your chronic illness flares, your capacity drops, or you simply need to go offline for three weeks, your membership remains a supportive container to return to, not another task on your to-do list.
Forcing a silver lining, or the search for “the lesson,” in a life collapse is an act of self-violence.
You won’t find any New Age fluff around here.
I don’t believe in using spiritual concepts to bypass or minimize your pain. And I also don’t believe in trying to force meaning out of your toughest moments. Sometimes shit happens and you won’t know why. Still, it’s human to want ideas for how to move through the pain so you can live a life that’s a reflection of your values, dreams, and desires.
By the way, I’m Halle—animist practitioner, licensed therapist, and afterlife architect.
I’ve spent the last 9 years working as a licensed therapist, supporting over 300+ folks through their own figurative deaths in that time. Just like you, many of them became numb to the New Age bullshit that says:
“Just think positive!”
“This is all happening for a greater purpose.”
“You just have to vibrate at a higher frequency!”
Beyond being nausea (and rage) inducing, those phrases do absolutely nothing to help you rebuild when your world falls apart.
I created the Living Your Afterlife Membership so you never have to choose between rigid clinical models and unregulated spiritual spaces that engage in victim-blaming and spiritual bypassing. This space gives you room to practice setting down the performance of being okay and to start rebuilding your life on your own terms
Living Your Afterlife is exactly what you need if you:
Keep looping on what you could have done differently and want to stop shaming yourself for what can’t be changed
Have been trying to find the silver-lining in your loss and want to simply acknowledge how much pain you’ve been in
Keep panic-pivoting every other week and want to stop seeking out false promises of “quick fixes”
Once you learn how to go G.H.O.S.T you’ll:
No longer panic when you recall what you lost.
It’ll always be part of your story, but it won’t derail your entire day or send you into a pit of existential dread.
Stop minimizing your losses.
Phrases like, “but it wasn’t that bad,” or “but other people have it worse,” will become strangers to you. You’ll realize that owning your losses isn’t taking something away from anyone else.
Feel curious about your own future, instead of being terrified by it.
Your newfound comfort with uncertainty will allow that same curiosity to even morph into excitement for what’s coming next.
It’s finally time for you to go from playing the “what-if” game every night to creating a life that's a reflection of your values, dreams, and desires
Right now you’re stuck…
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Feeling directionless because your planned "next steps" no longer apply
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Questioning if it was a mistake to leave your religious community
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Shaming yourself for your queerness you were taught to hide
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Doubting if you can be chronically ill while also enjoying life
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Discounting your grief because other people "have it worse"
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Feeling lonely because not all of your friends and family have stuck by you
But you can grieve figurative losses and rebuild a life that's a reflection of your values, dreams, and desires by joining Living Your Afterlife!
Doors close October 5, 2026!
Living Your Afterlife Membership FAQs
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Monthly Membership — $47/month
Full access to weekly audio drops, workbooks, subscriber chat, and live monthly containers.
Cancel or pause anytime
Annual Membership — $470/year (Best Value with 2 Months Free)
Full access to everything in the monthly membership.
Saves $94/year
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Calls are scheduled for the 3rd Sunday of each month at 11am MST.
If you can’t attend live, you’ll be able to access the replays.
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Nope! While I am a licensed therapist, the work I do here at Living Your Afterlife isn’t clinical.
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I unfortunately can’t welcome you into Living Your Afterlife if you’re a current therapy client of mine.
In Colorado and Oregon (the states where I’m licensed the practice), it’s my responsibility to ensure you’re not paying me for both therapy and a non-therapy offer at the same time.
You are more than welcome to attend the free community workshops I host here though! -
You can!
If at any point, you want to resume therapy with me though, we’d need to pause your membership in Living Your Afterlife during that time.
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The tools and resources in the Living Your Afterlife can be a great complement (but not a substitute) to the work you’re doing in therapy.
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This isn’t the membership for you if you’re looking for:
Quick-fix manifestation tips, vision boards, or spiritual-bypassing
A rigid 12-step style program with strict homework schedules
An authority figure who’ll tell you what to do to “fix” your grief (or your life)